Best Flirting Tips for Women

           

 

 

     Flirting with men doesn’t have to be complicated. In fact it should be light and fun! Nothing too serious, or heavy that makes you appear desperate! In my research and dating experience, I have come up with a few techniques for the best flirting tips for women!   Learning how to flirt is not as hard or difficult as most people think.  Just like with anything else practice makes perfect. 

      Some people are just born naturally flirtations and flirting comes easily too them however I wasn’t one of those people.  I had to work at it.  This is why it was so important for me to learn the Secrets of Flirting With Men.  

Also, while you are mastering the art of flirting it wouldn't hurt to learn how to lean back and cultivate feminine mystique.   Men love the chase!  Men are indeed biologically driven for the need to chase.    

      But first let me reinitiate a few pointers and no/no(s )before moving on to the tips!  Do not come on too strong, don’t make comments stating I was hoping you would come talk to me,(this makes you seem desperate), don’t send him a drink, don’t stare a hole through him, or give off the vibe  you are just looking for something causal when you really aren’t.

  Whatever you do *DO NOT* give him your phone number unless he asks for it and only give it if you want too!    
 

How to Flirt With A Guy Without Being Obvious, Bringing Out The Goddess

 

        There are several ways to flirt with men without you having to be pushy!  For starters, you want to make sure that you have an air of approachability about you. 

 Make sure your face is open and smiling. I can’t emphasize this enough!  

      For the longest time, my friends would always comment on my angry face and would mention I was always looking angry.  However, this was far from the truth but thanks to my friends this made me realize I was giving off air of unapproachability.  I needed to correct this immediately if I wanted the men to start approaching me.  

        Also check your body language! If you are sitting and your shoulders are slumped forward then you are sending a signal that you are not open to being approached.  Another body language NO/NO is having your arms folded across your chest.  Again, you are subconsciously sending a signal that says STAY AWAY!  I am not open to being approached.

Think about would you be more open to approaching someone that was smiling or someone who was closed off and had a sour look on their face.  Well men feel the same way.   Despite all their macho talk and tough exterior many men are very insecure and fear rejection!  They want to know they can approach you without you taking attitude with them.  
 

Awesome Flirting Tips For Women, How to Flirt Like A Goddess and Encourage Him To Ask You Out

 

1.)     Laugh, yes that is correct! Laughter has always been the best form of medicine and cheerfulness.  Let’s face it ladies, we all love a guy with a great sense of humor.  Laughing at his joke (if it is funny) will cause a surge of confidence and courage in him.  You do want to encourage him to ask you out don’t you?  Well then this will make him feel like he is winning you over. 

2.)     Show an interest in his life.  But don’t be over the top with this.  Meaning keep it light and casual.  Ask questions about his family, friends, career, and hobbies.  But don’t go too deep with the questionings.  Men generally like it when you show a genuine interest in his life.  This will make him feel important and interesting.   He will associate those feelings with you.  This of course serves as a subconscious motivator to getting him to ask for your number or even asking you out on the spot right then and there.

 

3.)     Watch your body language!  I can’t say enough about this issue.   Make sure your posture is good and shoulders are back.  This subconsciously sends the message that you are open to being approached.  Also if you are sitting, make sure your legs are crossed and pointed toward him! This also conveys interest as well.  Leaning in and whispering in his ear when you can works to your benefit especially if you are in a loud crowded bar.    

4.)        Eye Contact!  Yep, that is right!  The key is to hold your eye contact for about 3 seconds. That is counted as One 1000, Two one -1000, and Three one-1000! Be sure to look away after this brief eye contact.  We don’t want to send the message we are some creepy stalker chic.

5.)        Reveal something interesting and unique about you! If you have an interesting hobby or talent disclosed that! For example, you can let him know you are a writer or you do community volunteer work.  But please do not commit these crimes, do not show him how limber you are or you can tie a knot in the cherry stem.   Besides you are not trying out for the circus here! These sexual innuendos are so not subtle by the way! This book Secrets of flirting with men was a life saver for me and helped me tremendously in becoming a Flirting Goddess!  

Secrets of Flirting with Men

 

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