Best Flirting Tips for Women

           

 

 

     Flirting with men doesn’t have to be complicated. In fact it should be light and fun! Nothing too serious, or heavy that makes you appear desperate! In my research and dating experience, I have come up with a few techniques for the best flirting tips for women!   Learning how to flirt is not as hard or difficult as most people think.  Just like with anything else practice makes perfect. 

      Some people are just born naturally flirtations and flirting comes easily too them however I wasn’t one of those people.  I had to work at it.  This is why it was so important for me to learn the Secrets of Flirting With Men.  

Also, while you are mastering the art of flirting it wouldn't hurt to learn how to lean back and cultivate feminine mystique.   Men love the chase!  Men are indeed biologically driven for the need to chase.    

      But first let me reinitiate a few pointers and no/no(s )before moving on to the tips!  Do not come on too strong, don’t make comments stating I was hoping you would come talk to me,(this makes you seem desperate), don’t send him a drink, don’t stare a hole through him, or give off the vibe  you are just looking for something causal when you really aren’t.

  Whatever you do *DO NOT* give him your phone number unless he asks for it and only give it if you want too!    
 

How to Flirt With A Guy Without Being Obvious, Bringing Out The Goddess

 

        There are several ways to flirt with men without you having to be pushy!  For starters, you want to make sure that you have an air of approachability about you. 

 Make sure your face is open and smiling. I can’t emphasize this enough!  

      For the longest time, my friends would always comment on my angry face and would mention I was always looking angry.  However, this was far from the truth but thanks to my friends this made me realize I was giving off air of unapproachability.  I needed to correct this immediately if I wanted the men to start approaching me.  

        Also check your body language! If you are sitting and your shoulders are slumped forward then you are sending a signal that you are not open to being approached.  Another body language NO/NO is having your arms folded across your chest.  Again, you are subconsciously sending a signal that says STAY AWAY!  I am not open to being approached.

Think about would you be more open to approaching someone that was smiling or someone who was closed off and had a sour look on their face.  Well men feel the same way.   Despite all their macho talk and tough exterior many men are very insecure and fear rejection!  They want to know they can approach you without you taking attitude with them.  
 

Awesome Flirting Tips For Women, How to Flirt Like A Goddess and Encourage Him To Ask You Out

 

1.)     Laugh, yes that is correct! Laughter has always been the best form of medicine and cheerfulness.  Let’s face it ladies, we all love a guy with a great sense of humor.  Laughing at his joke (if it is funny) will cause a surge of confidence and courage in him.  You do want to encourage him to ask you out don’t you?  Well then this will make him feel like he is winning you over. 

2.)     Show an interest in his life.  But don’t be over the top with this.  Meaning keep it light and casual.  Ask questions about his family, friends, career, and hobbies.  But don’t go too deep with the questionings.  Men generally like it when you show a genuine interest in his life.  This will make him feel important and interesting.   He will associate those feelings with you.  This of course serves as a subconscious motivator to getting him to ask for your number or even asking you out on the spot right then and there.

 

3.)     Watch your body language!  I can’t say enough about this issue.   Make sure your posture is good and shoulders are back.  This subconsciously sends the message that you are open to being approached.  Also if you are sitting, make sure your legs are crossed and pointed toward him! This also conveys interest as well.  Leaning in and whispering in his ear when you can works to your benefit especially if you are in a loud crowded bar.    

4.)        Eye Contact!  Yep, that is right!  The key is to hold your eye contact for about 3 seconds. That is counted as One 1000, Two one -1000, and Three one-1000! Be sure to look away after this brief eye contact.  We don’t want to send the message we are some creepy stalker chic.

5.)        Reveal something interesting and unique about you! If you have an interesting hobby or talent disclosed that! For example, you can let him know you are a writer or you do community volunteer work.  But please do not commit these crimes, do not show him how limber you are or you can tie a knot in the cherry stem.   Besides you are not trying out for the circus here! These sexual innuendos are so not subtle by the way! This book Secrets of flirting with men was a life saver for me and helped me tremendously in becoming a Flirting Goddess!  

Secrets of Flirting with Men

 

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How to make men chase after you

                                                         

 

         How to make men chase after you does not require some special magical love potion  or really anything special at all.  It also doesn’t require you to understand rocket science either.  I know Great News, Right!  Whew! What a relief!  I know the struggle is real and I understand completely because I struggled for a long time in this area with my ball-busting masculine energy ways!

                                     Men Love to Chase

   However, what is does require from you is leaning back and cultivating feminine mystique! Reining in your instincts. Yep, that is all.  So before you pick up that phone to call and ask him out on a date, let me explain something to you. I know been there done that and it has come back to bite me royally in the*&!

   So here it is Men love to chase! Plain and simple.   This is still base on the biological makeup of men and understanding men’s biology.  I know I know women have made great strides over the past 50 or so more years but the biological makeup of men have not changed!  Men love a good challenge! Anything they have to work hard for and earn makes them value it so much more!

    So be high value but easy to lose.  People just want what they think they cannot have.  Truthfully, men can be turned off when a woman gives too much or over gives.  

     So think twice before you pickup of that phone or send a text to ask him out.  Granted, he may be flattered in the beginning but he will most likely lose interest rather quickly because it doesn’t engage his masculinity.  The hunter instinct is still alive and well in the male species today ladies!  So use it to your advantage.

   Men are also very intrigue when they have to work at gaining your attention.

Men love it when a woman has her very own busy exciting life! When you have your own life, the pressure is off of him to be the main source of your happiness!   This in turn causes them to think about you more and wonder if you are even interested in them.  Men Love Competition!

                            Make Man Chase after You

   Really it is not about enforcing control or forcing somebody to do something. Quite truthfully it is right the opposite!  You don’t have control over another individual anyway but what you do have control over is yourself!

   The tools to employ are to learn self-control, (by not asking him out first, by not calling him first, etc) have confidence be high value, learn to date yourself, and squash the negativity by journeying inward to examine your old wounds and baggage. Lastly, master the art of flirting! ;-)  I myself needing a little extra help in this category.

 When you do employ these tools this in return raises your energy/vibration and confidence levels to attracting men who can’t help but want to chase after you and do anything just to be in your presence!

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How to get an ex-boyfriend back fast!

 


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If you have been looking high and low for tips on how to get your ex- boyfriend back and fast!  Read on for today's blog post.

         To GET an EX -Boyfriend Back Fast: Tip #1 Be High Value

There are most certainly things you can do to help speed the process and you can employ certain tips to getting your boyfriend back fast! 

But one thing that definitely does not work and will not work is that no amount of whining, crying, begging, bitching, and complaining will help you!  Whatever you do please do not issue an angry ultimatum!  This is a complete and totally turnoff from a male perspective and will get you nowhere fast!

In fact it will work against you!  This sends a huge message that you are not complete or whole within yourself.  This also reflects back to issues of insecurities and low self-esteem!  Stop acting desperate!

In order for you to have any chance whatsoever at getting your ex back and getting your ex back fast, you have to regain your sense of self value, self-worth, and self-esteem.  You will need to learn how to become high value but easy to lose.   Start a dating rotation and start focusing on your-self.

 

          To GET an EX -Boyfriend Back Fast: Tip #2 Be Independent

 

The woman most men find attractive is one who is independent but yet vulnerable.  

Your ex-boyfriend also wants a lover not a child or mother.  If you started shoving all your troubles and problems on him the minute he arrived on the scene, most likely your ex-boyfriend got the impression that you were not wanting a boyfriend but a sounding board.  I once was very guilty of doing the same thing!  It's no wonder, I pushed my then boyfriend away!

Ladies do not adopt this behavior.   Your boyfriend is not your girlfriend.   This will cause him to wonder if you found anything special about him in the first place or was just desperate to have boyfriend.  This is very unflattering to the male ego and doesn’t make him feel good to be in your company! 

 

     To GET an EX -Boyfriend Back Fast: Tip #3 Shift the Negative Energy

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Instead find your girlfriends and go out for happy hour and vent with them or another effective solution start journaling your thoughts and feelings. The process of transforming your thoughts and emotions related to stressful experiences into written language has demonstrated to have  overall positive effect on your  health and well-being.  I do this and this has been very therapeutic and healing for me.

But instead you have pushed him away with your negative energy.   Maybe it’s time to learn how to lean back and cultivate feminine mystique,  lure with honey, and journey inward to investigate and evaluate all your old wounds and baggage.