Thursday, October 29, 2015

How to make men chase after you


                                                         

 

         How to make men chase after you does not require some special magical love potion  or really anything special at all.  It also doesn’t require you to understand rocket science either.  I know Great News, Right!  Whew! What a relief!  I know the struggle is real and I understand completely because I struggled for a long time in this area with my ball-busting masculine energy ways!

                                     Men Love to Chase


   However, what is does require from you is leaning back and cultivating feminine mystique! Reining in your instincts. Yep, that is all.  So before you pick up that phone to call and ask him out on a date, let me explain something to you. I know been there done that and it has come back to bite me royally in the*&!

   So here it is Men love to chase! Plain and simple.   This is still base on the biological makeup of men and understanding men’s biology.  I know I know women have made great strides over the past 50 or so more years but the biological makeup of men have not changed!  Men love a good challenge! Anything they have to work hard for and earn makes them value it so much more!

    So be high value but easy to lose.  People just want what they think they cannot have.  Truthfully, men can be turned off when a woman gives too much or over gives.  

     So think twice before you pickup of that phone or send a text to ask him out.  Granted, he may be flattered in the beginning but he will most likely lose interest rather quickly because it doesn’t engage his masculinity.  The hunter instinct is still alive and well in the male species today ladies!  So use it to your advantage.


   Men are also very intrigue when they have to work at gaining your attention.

Men love it when a woman has her very own busy exciting life! When you have your own life, the pressure is off of him to be the main source of your happiness!   This in turn causes them to think about you more and wonder if you are even interested in them.  Men Love Competition!

                            Make Man Chase after You


   Really it is not about enforcing control or forcing somebody to do something. Quite truthfully it is right the opposite!  You don’t have control over another individual anyway but what you do have control over is yourself!

   The tools to employ are to learn self-control, (by not asking him out first, by not calling him first, etc) have confidence be high value, learn to date yourself, and squash the negativity by journeying inward to examine your old wounds and baggage. Lastly, master the art of flirting! ;-)  I myself needing a little extra help in this category.

 When you do employ these tools this in return raises your energy/vibration and confidence levels to attracting men who can’t help but want to chase after you and do anything just to be in your presence!

 photos by istockphoto.com

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